Li Yang, as we all know, is the founder of Crazy English. He was the focus of attention a few years ago, but now he has jumped into the public eye again, because he claims to be the spokesman of domestic violence. He openly hit his wife and said that if he had a gun in his speech, he would shoot and kill her.
Surprisingly, the audience applauded after him and said that this kind of behavior can be regarded as a kind of support for domestic violence. First of all, I don't agree with him. As for Li Yang's statement, his wife said some bad things about China, which destroyed his tolerance.
So in my opinion, he used violence to stop this kind of behavior. Once people get married, they should understand each other, especially For mixed marriage, if the two sides have different opinions, they should be settled by peaceful means instead of violence. The worst and best way is divorce.
Secondly, domestic violence is good for the family. No matter the emotional breakdown caused by violence, if it worsens, fracture may occur. If the family has children, parents quarrel or fight in front of the children, the child will undoubtedly have a kind of unforgettable childhood phobia, and it is likely that he or she will become a violent person.
Therefore, both husband and wife should control their hot temper, and in the near future When quarreling, we should have a calm heart and be frank. We should oppose domestic violence. No matter who did something wrong or said something wrong, violence can not be solved.
We should be ashamed of Li Yang's speech of becoming the spokesman of domestic violence.
In China, gender violence and domestic violence around us are common: in the past few years, millions of infants in China have been deprived of the opportunity to have children or abandoned simply because they are women, which can be classified as the most serious sexual violence. According to the fourth article of the white paper on Chinese women published by the State Council, divorce families increase every year due to various forms of domestic violence In recent years, more than% of the victims of domestic violence are women.
The existing families believe that the relationship between husband and wife is based on feelings. The relationship between husband and wife is not between you and me, you are mine, I am you, your things are mine, and my things are yours. I think this is wrong and harmful.
It is a simple naive emotional problem and the root of family problems. Domestic violence should be treated rationally. The relationship between husband and wife is based on the relationship between husband and wife On the basis of sexual and emotional needs, husband and wife are not appendages to each other, but three kinds of relationships, namely, the joint undertaking of sexual partners, the emotional friends and the cultivation of partners for children.
As for the specific contents of these three relationships, I will not say that like any other marital relationship, the marital relationship between any two people in society is that the husband beats his wife, just as you treat others Everyone should be punished by law, which makes domestic violence and social violence illegal. We have developed this new family concept and stipulated in the marriage law that domestic violence will be greatly reduced.