According to some social surveys, we can see that the only child in most Chinese families feels lonely in some aspects. Why is it a terrible thing for the only child to feel lonely? Compared with the west, Chinese children are more complex in communication, which is also one of the reasons why they lack friends and company. As the only child in the family, they can't get rid of it when they encounter difficulties When brothers and sisters get happiness, they have to solve it by themselves and can't get help from their families.
Therefore, compared with children with brothers and sisters, the only child will feel lonely and lonely. Is loneliness a bad thing? Obviously, the answer is no, because loneliness can also benefit them. It is reported that the only child has more advantages than other children in character.
First of all, the only child is more independent in personal aspect and seeks help from others. They are used to dealing with various things as much as possible. In this way, the only child will be more independent in life, and they can also bear more setbacks and pressures.
When they leave their parents and start to live alone, they will encounter some problems Difficult, but the premise is not to have too deep dependence on parents, and the only child as the only child in the family, their vision is broader than others, they can enjoy better living conditions and education conditions, under this premise, they have more opportunities to contact new things, accept higher education, loneliness gives them more time and space to think, vulgar In other words, genius is the product of loneliness. Einstein is a good example. Therefore, on the one hand, when the only child feels lonely, he can also enjoy loneliness.
When loneliness brings us more opportunities to think about the meaning of life and the future, the only child who feels lonely can also benefit from it. Learning to enjoy loneliness will make it easier to experience real life.
Spoiled one-child families in China, most people begin to think that one-child families are better than those with more children. Family planning tends to control population growth, and parents have more time to take care of their children. Therefore, there are more and more one-child families.
However, some people say that the only child family may cause some social problems in the future, such as children feeling lonely, Sometimes they are spoiled by their parents. Compared with different views, the only child family has a greater advantage. It is beneficial to the people and the whole country.
After the only child pronoun, due to the influence of the only child, the parents of the only child are usually very fond of, and also produced a unique name "little emperor", which means that the only child enjoys the status of emperor in the family. Therefore, the only child is generally self-centered, does not like to communicate with others, and lacks the ability to withstand setbacks. Some people think that the new generation of China's only child Women have an independent character and a free life attitude, which will effectively promote the development of the only child, China's social transformation, and promote the process of China's social democracy and legal system.
These are some social problems and related discussions in the process of children's growth. If parents can continue to encourage their children to get the sage Gan they need, they are the best parents to help their children know themselves Successful experience, the gift parents can give their children is the most precious.